Anal Dildos
Anal dildos are insertable sex toys designed specifically for anal use. They always have a flared base to prevent full insertion into the rectum and are typically smoother and more tapered than vaginal dildos. They are used for anal penetration, internal fullness, and prostate stimulation during solo masturbation and partnered sex.
Anal Dildos Quick Facts
- Category: Dildos
- Common Materials: Body-safe silicone, stainless steel, borosilicate glass, dual-density silicone
- Typical Sizes: Insertable lengths from 8 cm to 25 cm; diameter from 2.5 cm to 6 cm and beyond
- Power: Manual (no motor); vibrating anal dildos are a separate subcategory
- Key Features: Flared base required on all anal dildos, smooth tapered design, non-porous body-safe materials, some with curved shaft for prostate targeting
Why Choose Anal Dildos
- Designed specifically for anal anatomy. The anus and rectum have different requirements from the vagina during penetration. Anal dildos are tapered for easier insertion, smoother than most vaginal dildos to reduce friction against sensitive rectal tissue, and always include a flared base that prevents full insertion. Using a vaginal dildo anally without confirming it has a flared base is unsafe.
- Provides internal fullness and penetration that a butt plug does not. A butt plug is inserted and stays in place to provide static fullness. An anal dildo is used with thrusting or movement, providing the sensation of active anal penetration rather than stationary presence. People who want the physical experience of anal sex during solo masturbation use anal dildos specifically for this.
- Curved designs reach the prostate. The prostate gland sits on the front wall of the rectum roughly 5 to 8 cm inside the anus. Anal dildos with a pronounced upward curve can press against the prostate during thrusting or when angled forward. This provides combined anal and prostate stimulation that a straight anal dildo or a butt plug does not consistently deliver.
- Non-porous materials allow full sanitisation. Silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass anal dildos can be fully sterilised between uses. This is particularly important for anal toys given the bacterial environment of the rectum, and is one of the most important reasons to choose anal-specific dildos made from these materials over porous alternatives.
- Available in sizes suited to progressive anal training. Anal dildos are available in slim starter sizes through to large advanced designs. Using progressively larger sizes over time is the standard approach to expanding anal comfort and accommodation, and the dildo format provides more control over thrusting depth and pace during this process than a fixed plug.
Types of Anal Dildos
Smooth tapered anal dildos are the most common type. They have a pointed or narrow tip that widens gradually along the shaft, making insertion more accessible than a uniform-diameter shaft. The taper allows the sphincter to open gradually during insertion rather than needing to accommodate the full diameter immediately. Browse the full butt plugs collection if you want a toy that stays in place rather than being used with active thrusting.
Curved prostate anal dildos have an upward curve designed to angle the tip toward the front wall of the rectum where the prostate sits. During use with a forward-pressing motion rather than straight thrusting, the curved tip applies direct pressure to the prostate. These are used by people with penises who want anal penetration combined with prostate stimulation from a single toy.
Realistic anal dildos are shaped to resemble a penis with anatomical detail including a defined glans and surface veining. They provide the visual and physical experience of realistic anal penetration. See the full realistic dildos collection for anatomically shaped designs across multiple use cases.
Large anal dildos are designed for experienced users who want significant anal fullness during penetration. These require prior experience with smaller anal toys and thorough warm-up before use. They should not be used as a starting point.
Double-ended anal dildos are long shafts with insertable ends at both extremities, allowing two people to use the same toy simultaneously or one person to use both ends in different positions.
Glass and stainless steel anal dildos are completely firm with no flex, fully non-porous, and can be warmed or chilled before use for temperature play. The smooth, hard surface produces a different internal sensation from soft silicone and requires no lubrication reapplication during use as glass and metal retain lubrication on the surface better than silicone.
Anal Dildos Selection Guide
| If you want | Look for |
|---|---|
| First anal dildo for penetration | A slim smooth tapered silicone dildo under 3 cm diameter with a flared base |
| Anal penetration and prostate stimulation together | A curved silicone anal dildo with pronounced upward angle |
| Realistic anal penetration experience | A realistic shaped anal dildo with anatomical detail and a flared base |
| Temperature play anally | A stainless steel or borosilicate glass anal dildo |
| Progressive size increase over time | A set of anal dildos in graduated sizes |
| Hands-free anal penetration | An anal dildo with a suction cup flared base |
Who Buys Anal Dildos
Anal dildos are bought by people of all genders who want the active sensation of anal penetration rather than the static fullness of a butt plug. They are used during solo masturbation to simulate anal sex and during partnered sex when one partner wants to be anally penetrated while the other is engaged in another activity.
People with penises buy curved anal dildos specifically for prostate stimulation during anal penetration. The prostate provides a distinct and often more intense orgasm than penile stimulation alone for many people, and a curved anal dildo that contacts the prostate during use delivers both anal and prostate stimulation simultaneously.
People who enjoy anal sex with a partner and want to replicate that experience during solo masturbation buy realistic anal dildos in a size similar to partners they have been with. The combination of physical sensation and visual realism produces a more immersive solo experience than a smooth or abstract dildo for these users.
People working progressively toward larger anal penetration buy anal dildos in graduated sizes to use sequentially, increasing size gradually over multiple sessions as the anal sphincter and rectum accommodate the progressive stretch more comfortably.
Choosing Anal Dildos
A flared base is non-negotiable. Every anal dildo must have a flared base, T-bar, or retrieval mechanism that sits outside the body at all times. The rectum can draw objects fully inside through involuntary muscle contractions and there is no natural stopping point. Never use any toy anally that does not have a confirmed flared base wider than the body of the toy.
Start smaller than you think you need. Even with prior experience of anal penetration with a partner, an anal dildo produces a different sensation and requires its own warm-up. Starting with a smaller diameter than your estimated comfortable size and working up within a session is always safer and more comfortable than starting at maximum size.
Smooth over textured for anal use. The rectum is more sensitive to texture than the vagina. Heavy veining or pronounced surface texture that feels pleasurable vaginally can feel uncomfortable rectally, particularly during thrusting. Smooth or very lightly textured anal dildos are more comfortable for most people than heavily textured designs.
Non-porous material is strongly preferred for anal use. Silicone, stainless steel, and borosilicate glass can all be fully sanitised between uses. Porous materials including TPE, rubber, and jelly cannot be fully cleaned of anal bacteria regardless of how thoroughly you wash them. For anal use in particular, non-porous materials are not optional if hygiene matters to you.
Lube is essential and must be reapplied. The anus does not self-lubricate. Apply generous lubricant to both the anal dildo and the anal opening before use, and have more within reach to reapply during the session. Thicker water-based lubricants stay in place better than thin formulas for anal use.
Looking After Your Anal Dildos
Clean anal dildos immediately after every use. Silicone anal dildos without motors can be boiled for 3 minutes or run through a dishwasher without detergent for full sterilisation. Stainless steel and borosilicate glass can also be fully sterilised by boiling or dishwashing. Wash with warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap as a minimum after every use, paying attention to any surface texture near the base where residue accumulates.
Never use the same anal dildo vaginally in the same session without full sterilisation between uses. Anal bacteria introduced vaginally can cause infections. If switching between anal and vaginal use during a session, place a condom over the toy for anal use and remove it before vaginal use.
Use water-based lubricant with silicone anal dildos. Silicone-based lubricant degrades silicone surfaces. Glass and stainless steel are compatible with all lubricant types. Store in individual clean pouches away from other toys.
Goes Well With
Anal lubricant is the single most important companion for anal dildo use. Apply generously before insertion and keep within reach throughout the session. Thicker gel-style water-based lubricants work better for anal use than thin runny formulas as they stay in place on the surface rather than running off during use.
A vibrator held against the clitoris or penis during anal dildo use provides simultaneous external stimulation that significantly intensifies the overall experience for most people. The combination of active anal penetration and external vibration is one of the most commonly described approaches to solo sex for people who regularly use anal dildos.
Anal douching before use reduces mess and increases comfort for many people, particularly when using larger anal dildos or planning an extended session. Douche bulbs are available in the douches and enemas section of the anal toys range.
Read Up
For practical guidance on making anal penetration comfortable, including preparation, lubrication, warm-up, and how to progress gradually, read the Lovva guide on how to make anal sex more comfortable. The advice applies directly to anal dildo use and covers everything needed for a safe and comfortable first and ongoing experience.
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Lovva stocks a full range of anal dildos including smooth tapered silicone designs, curved prostate-targeting styles, realistic shaped options, glass and stainless steel temperature-play models, double-ended designs, and graduated size sets. All products are made from body-safe non-porous materials and ship in discreet, unbranded packaging worldwide. Browse the full collection above to filter by material, size, and shape.
Anal dildos are insertable sex toys designed specifically for anal use. They always have a flared base to prevent full insertion into the rectum and are typically smoother and more tapered than vaginal dildos. They are used for anal penetration,...
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Frequently asked questions
What makes an anal dildo different from a regular dildo?
Anal dildos are designed specifically for rectal anatomy and always have a flared base that prevents full insertion into the body. The rectum does not have a natural stopping point the way the vagina does, so any toy used anally must have a base that sits outside the body at all times. Anal dildos are also typically smoother and more tapered than vaginal dildos, as the rectal tissue is more sensitive to texture and requires a narrower entry point for comfortable insertion. Using a vaginal dildo anally is only safe if it has a confirmed flared base wider than the shaft.
Do I need a flared base on an anal dildo?
Yes, without exception. The anus can draw objects fully inside the body through involuntary muscle contractions and there is no internal stopping point in the rectum. A flared base that is wider than the body of the dildo sits outside the anal opening at all times and physically prevents full insertion. Never use any toy anally that does not have a confirmed flared base, T-bar, or secure retrieval mechanism. This applies regardless of how experienced you are with anal play.
What size anal dildo should I start with?
For a first anal dildo, choose a smooth tapered design with a maximum shaft diameter of around 2.5 to 3 cm. Even with prior experience of anal penetration with a partner, an anal dildo requires its own warm-up process and produces a different sensation from a partner. Starting smaller than your estimated comfortable size and increasing within the session is always safer and more comfortable than beginning at a size based on prior partner experience. You can always use more of the shaft once warmed up, but you cannot undo discomfort from starting too large.
What lubricant should I use with an anal dildo?
Use water-based lubricant with silicone anal dildos. Silicone-based lubricant degrades silicone surfaces over time. The anus does not produce any natural lubrication, so generous and repeated application is essential for comfortable anal dildo use. Apply lubricant to both the dildo and the anal opening before insertion, and have more within reach to reapply during the session. A thicker gel-style water-based lubricant stays in place better during anal use than a thin, runny formula. Glass and stainless steel anal dildos are compatible with all lubricant types including silicone-based, which lasts longer between reapplications.
Can anal dildos be used for prostate stimulation?
Yes, provided the dildo has a pronounced upward curve designed to angle the tip toward the front wall of the rectum where the prostate sits. A straight anal dildo does not consistently contact the prostate during thrusting. A curved anal dildo with significant forward angle, when inserted with the curve facing toward the stomach and pressed forward rather than thrusted straight, applies direct pressure to the prostate. Many people with penises find this produces a more intense and full-body orgasm than penile stimulation alone when combined with external stimulation simultaneously.